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Jen — I didn’t go searching to find Mikki’s definition that fits “my” narrow view; I wanted to see how choice moms define themselves and when I googled it, that’s what I found. Now i see on her Web site that she defines it as: a single woman who proactively decides to become the best mother she can, through adoption or conception.

OK. that clears up that issue, I guess.

I applaud anyone who adopts and/or fosters a child who needs a family and love. Who wouldn’t? Still doesn’t change how I — and a lot of people — feel about women birthing babies without a father. It’s not in a child’s best interest and never will be. I find it very, very telling that on Mikki’s Web site, she answers the question, What is the biggest concern of women who are considering Choice Motherhood? this way: “For many women I’ve talked to, it’s purely financial.” I find that curious, as I would think, if women were truly putting their kid’s interest first, the first and biggest concern would be — how well do children do without a father? What is the long-term psychological impact?

Then my question would be — am I emotionally strong enough to handle this?

I harbor no ill will toward choice mothers whose babies are already born; I just don’t understand why anyone would encourage more choice mothers as if it were the greatest discovery since cocoa beans. Jen, guess we’ll have to agree to disagree. I’m OK with that.

 Liz says:
June 5, 2010 at 3:21 pm
“Still doesn’t change how I — and a lot of people — feel about women birthing babies without a father. It’s not in a child’s best interest and never will be. ”

You’ve been asking us to prove that it is in the child’s best interest and ignoring everything we say since it is only anecdotal.

Where is you scientific evidence that it isn’t in a child’s best interest to be born without a father? I won’t accept studies done on low income teenage moms as I’m not in that category. Show me the studies done on financially and emotionally stable women who have raised children without fathers.